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What Is a Regulated Nervous System? (And Why It’s the Foundation of Everything You Want)

05/19/2025

“You don’t heal in the mind. You heal in the body.” We live in a world that praises thinking—logic, analysis, planning, pushing through. But when the pressure builds, the noise gets loud, or you feel triggered… logic alone won’t get you through. Because what’s happening isn’t just mental. It’s nervous system deep. Let’s break this…

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Facing Fear: The Shift from Compulsion to Choice

04/28/2025

What are we running from? Are we running away, or are we running toward something? For so much of my life, I was driven by fear—running from what I didn’t want, running from what I feared. Until eventually, there was nowhere left to run. And I had to face my fears. When you’re forced to…

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Allow vs. Avoid: How We Suppress Emotion and Block Aliveness

04/10/2025

Are you suppressing your emotions? As we go through life, we encounter a wide range of sticky, uncomfortable feelings. And when something feels too overwhelming to face, it’s easy to distract ourselves—to pop out of presence and turn to food, shopping, entertainment, scrolling. Even things that look productive can be subtle forms of avoidance. I…

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The Journey of the Self: From Ego to Soul’s Calling

03/24/2025

As children, we first develop a sense of self-what Carl Jung might call the little self. Around the age of three, we recognize ourselves in the mirror, distinguishing me from you, realizing our own desires, preferences, and separateness from others. This sense of identity, rooted in ego, carries us through much of our early life.…

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Reframing Anxiety: A New Relationship with the Mind & Body

03/07/2025

For much of my life, I struggled with anxiety. And to be honest, I still do—it’s something that comes with being deeply aware, with caring about life, about others, about the path I’m on. But the difference now is that I no longer let it control me. Instead, I’ve learned to navigate it, to work…

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Understanding Masculine & Feminine Polarity: What Women Truly Want When They Ask for Vulnerability

02/28/2025

Many men hear women say they want their partner to open up, be vulnerable, and share their emotions. But what does this actually mean? And why does it sometimes seem to backfire when a man finally does open up? What women are really seeking is to feel a man’s emotions-to sense his depth, presence, and…

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Striking the Balance Between Being and Doing

02/21/2025

In a world that constantly pushes us toward productivity and achievement, how do we strike the delicate balance between reaching for growth and knowing when to pause? How do we continue to push ourselves toward opportunities for challenge and success without overextending, without collapsing under the weight of too many commitments? This balance is an…

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Presence Over Escapism: Confronting the Addictions That Hold Us Back

02/14/2025

I was talking with a friend of mine recently who shared that he had been sober for two weeks. He spoke about his struggles with both alcohol and marijuana and how he’s been through AA in the past. Hearing him opened the space for me to share about my own struggles with addiction, something I…

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The Power of Belief: Your Most Valuable Asset

02/07/2025

The most powerful asset you possess isn’t money, talent, or connections—it’s your beliefs. What you believe about yourself and your abilities determines the course of your actions and, ultimately, the results you achieve. If you believe you’re capable of something, you’ll find a way to do it. But if you believe you’re incapable, you’ll never…

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Embracing Change: The Balance Between Flow and Stability

01/28/2025

Change is all around us. It is constant, inevitable, and unstoppable. When we grip tightly to things we wish would remain static, we find ourselves fragile and breakable. Suffering arises when we resist change, fighting the natural flow of life. But when we accept that the world is ever-changing—like water flowing through a winding river—we…

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